Memorial Day 2015

On Memorial Day, Christian Jacobs, 4, of Hertford, NC, walks past the headstone of his father, Marine Sgt. Christopher Jacobs, in Section 60 at Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, Virginia, USA, on 25 May 2015. (Pete Marovich/ European PressPhoto Agency)

On Memorial Day, Christian Jacobs, 4, of Hertford, NC, walks past the headstone of his father, Marine Sgt. Christopher Jacobs, in Section 60 at Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, Virginia, USA, on 25 May 2015. (Pete Marovich/ European PressPhoto Agency)

I first met Brittany Jacobs and her son Christian at Arlington National Cemetery on Memorial Day 2012. I had just made some images of her as she held her son tightly and wept at her husband’s headstone. It was their first Memorial Day visit to the gravesite since Sgt. Christopher J. Jacobs, 29, of Alcona, MI was killed during a training exercise at the Marine Corps’ desert warfare training base at Twentynine Palms, CA.

Jacobs enlisted in the Marine Corps in June 2000 and had completed combat tours in Iraq/Kuwait and Afghanistan. His military awards include three Marine Corps Good Conduct Medals, a Combat Action Ribbon, two Global War Terrorism Service Medals, a Global War on Terrorism Expeditinary Medals, two Sea Service Deployment Ribbons, an Iraq Campaign Medal, a National Defense Service Medal and the Navy Meritorious Unit Commendation.

It is always hard to approach someone who is grieving at Arlington, but obviously part of the job of a photojournalist is to get the caption information to go with the photograph. I waited patiently until Brittany was able to compose herself and then introduced myself and asked for some information about her family and husband.

But like everyone I have ever approached at Arlington, she was very accommodating and eager to tell me about her husband and family.

The next day, one of the photos of Brittany and her son appeared on the front page of the Wall Street Journal. I received an email from her thanking me for the photo and saying how honored she was, even though it was such a heartbreaking photograph.

Since then, I have seen Brittany and Christian at Arlington every Memorial Day, and I always make a few photos of them during their visit. In 2013 another photo I made of them in a lighter moment at the gravesite appeared on the front page of the New York Times, and this year a photo of her appeared on the front of USA Today.

As nice as it is to have my photos appear on the front pages of newspapers, the most remarkable thing about these photos to me is that I am witnessing and documenting a little boy growing up missing and mourning his father. It is only a few photos one day a year, but it is interesting to look back and see the transition. I am sure that he does not quite fully realize the loss he has experienced, but this will change as the time passes, and he understands the meaning of these yearly visits to Arlington. This year, a newspaper quoted him saying, “I hope for you to come back soon, daddy.”

Brittany Jacobs of Hertford, NC, hugs her 17-month old son Christian at her husband, Marine SGT Christopher Jacobs' gravesite in Arlington National Cemetery on Memorial Day in Arlington, VA, USA on 28 May, 2012. (Pete Marovich/ European PressPhoto Agency)

Brittany Jacobs of Hertford, NC, hugs her 17-month old son Christian at her husband, Marine SGT Christopher Jacobs’ gravesite in Arlington National Cemetery on Memorial Day in Arlington, VA, USA on 28 May, 2012. (Pete Marovich/ European PressPhoto Agency)

On Memorial Day, Brittany Jacobs of Hertford, North Carolina sits with her son, Christian, at the gravesite of her husband, Marine Sgt. Christopher Jacobs, at National Cemetery in Arlington Virginia, USA on 27 May, 2013. (Pete Marovich/ European PressPhoto Agency)

On Memorial Day, Brittany Jacobs of Hertford, North Carolina sits with her son, Christian, at the gravesite of her husband, Marine Sgt. Christopher Jacobs, at National Cemetery in Arlington Virginia, USA on 27 May, 2013. (Pete Marovich/ European PressPhoto Agency)

On Memorial Day, Brittany Jacobs of Hertford, North Carolina walks along the rows of headstones in Section 60 at Arlington National Cemetery with her son, Christian, 3, in Arlington, Virginia, USA, on 26 May 2014. Jacobs and her son were visiting the grave of her husband, Marine Sgt. Christopher Jacobs. (Pete Marovich/ European PressPhoto Agency)

On Memorial Day, Brittany Jacobs of Hertford, North Carolina walks along the rows of headstones in Section 60 at Arlington National Cemetery with her son, Christian, 3, in Arlington, Virginia, USA, on 26 May 2014. Jacobs and her son were visiting the grave of her husband, Marine Sgt. Christopher Jacobs. (Pete Marovich/ European PressPhoto Agency)

On Memorial Day, Brittany Jacobs of Hertford, North Carolina and her son, Christian, 4 sit at the headstone of her husband, Marine Sgt. Christopher Jacobs, in Section 60 at Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, Virginia, USA, on 25 May 2015. (Pete Marovich/ European PressPhoto Agency)

On Memorial Day, Brittany Jacobs of Hertford, North Carolina and her son, Christian, 4 sit at the headstone of her husband, Marine Sgt. Christopher Jacobs, in Section 60 at Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, Virginia, USA, on 25 May 2015. (Pete Marovich/ European PressPhoto Agency)

Below are some of my other images from Memorial Day at Arlington National Cemetery this year.

On Memorial Day, Peter Warigi, 40, of Kenya, visits the grave of his brother SSGT Anthony Warigi USA at Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, Virginia, USA, on 25 May 2015. (Pete Marovich/ European PressPhoto Agency)

On Memorial Day, Peter Warigi, 40, of Kenya, visits the grave of his brother SSGT Anthony Warigi USA at Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, Virginia, USA, on 25 May 2015. (Pete Marovich/ European PressPhoto Agency)

On Memorial Day, Alivin Amezquita is comforted by his wife Erika and daughter Myra as he visits the grave of a friend at Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, Virginia, USA, on 25 May 2015. (Pete Marovich/ European PressPhoto Agency)

On Memorial Day, Alivin Amezquita is comforted by his wife Erika and daughter Myra as he visits the grave of a friend at Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, Virginia, USA, on 25 May 2015. (Pete Marovich/ European PressPhoto Agency)

On Memoral Day, friends and relatives visit the graves of the fallen at Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, Virginia, USA, on 25 May 2015. (Pete Marovich/ European PressPhoto Agency)

On Memoral Day, friends and relatives visit the graves of the fallen at Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, Virginia, USA, on 25 May 2015. (Pete Marovich/ European PressPhoto Agency)

On Memoral Day, friends and relatives visit the graves of the fallen at Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, Virginia, USA, on 25 May 2015. (Pete Marovich/ European PressPhoto Agency)

On Memoral Day, friends and relatives visit the graves of the fallen at Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, Virginia, USA, on 25 May 2015. (Pete Marovich/ European PressPhoto Agency)

2 thoughts on “Memorial Day 2015

  1. Pete,

    I’ve seen a lot of your photos and they are all wonderful, but these Arlington images are extraordinary. They are both beautiful and heartrending. I don’t think I would have the courage to shoot them, let alone talk with the people in them. You continue to amaze me.

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